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On my end, the experiences were progressively less enjoyable. I tried to get in touch with my bisexual side, and found it pretty much missing.
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And while he may not be able to swing on his own—the organized swinging scene is notoriously hostile to openly bi men—your husband can seek out other sex partners, right?
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First things first: A lot of people open their relationships unilaterally and secretly; that would be unethical non-monogamy, aka cheating. That said, NCAS, I'm going to quote from the advice I recently gave a guy in a newly opened marriage whose wife was getting tons of extramarital D while he got no additional P Openness only works when it's working for both partners.
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While getting her male partner laid is not the responsibility xwinging a woman in open relationship, helping him—if she can—may be in her own best interests. It's not about her being responsible for getting him laidit's about her being supportive in his efforts to get himself laid.
You aren't obligated to get your husband laid, NCAS, but swimging can vouch for him and, if the swingers parties themselves aren't too Dominant Abingdon bbw if it's just the sex part that bothers you and not the other-people-including-your-husband-having-sex partyou could attend a party now and then with your husband and let him play on his own.
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You've given him permission to explore on his own. That's enough—hell, it's more than a man who made a monogamous commitment to a person before having two children with that same person has a right to expect.
He can't demand that you fuck other people just because it'll make it easier for him to do the same. Both of us really appreciate your thoughtful response and your suggestions.
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